Married life isn't easy, especially when you're not the one who's married. Astute readers might think that I'm not making sense, and that I'm babbling incoherently again. But it's true - when one is attracted to a woman who's spoken for, marriage is one heck of an impediment. The attraction of someone you think of as a hot wife might be based on the marriage itself - the temptations of forbidden fruit, etc etc. But it's a much greater kick in the emotional teeth when you're in love with someone for genuine reasons, only to have those emotions dismissed for whatever reason. You might be thinking that you should be Mr Right, but you would be wrong. It would be better to hit up one of the many sex dating sites, like Adult Friend Finder, than to walk this road. But of course you won't.

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