When someone says they're "in a rut" they usually mean that they haven't been on a date in a while or that they're generally having a hard time hooking up, but when it comes to interpersonal relationships there are all kinds of different ways to get bogged down. It's disturbing to realize how much of our lives are determined by convention. Being either gay or lesbian isn't such a big taboo anymore, at least it isn't necessarily so, but people tend to understand it as an orientation that's supposed to determine people's identities, hence all the stereotypes that we have in our culture. One good way to be able to explore all of your desires is to meet people through a bisexual dating site.

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